Requesting transport fare from a guy and not visiting is not necessarily a crime, but it can be considered fraud or deception, depending on the circumstances.

1. Is It Legally a Crime in Nigeria?
Under Nigerian law, fraud is a criminal offense. If a person asks for transport money with the promise of visiting but never intends to do so, it could be seen as obtaining money under false pretenses. This falls under Section 419 of the Nigerian Criminal Code, which deals with fraud and dishonesty.
However, proving this as a crime in court can be difficult unless there is clear evidence that the request was made with the intention to deceive from the beginning.
2. Ethical and Social Consequences
Even if it is not legally pursued, asking for transport and failing to visit can damage trust and reputation. Some possible consequences include:
- Loss of credibility – The person may never trust or help again.
- Public embarrassment – If exposed, it could lead to social ridicule.
- Strained relationships – It may damage friendships or romantic connections.
3. When Is It Considered Fraud?
It becomes fraud if:
- The request was made with no intention of visiting.
- The money was obtained through deception.
- The person continuously does this to different people for financial gain.
If the person who sent the transport money reports it and has evidence of deception (chats, calls, or transactions), they might be able to take legal action.
4. How to Avoid Issues
- Be honest – If you are unsure about visiting, do not request transport.
- Clarify expectations – If someone sends transport, they may expect a visit.
- Refund the money – If plans change, returning the transport fare is the best option.
Final Thoughts
While it may not always be a criminal offense, asking for transport money without intending to visit is unethical and dishonest. To avoid trouble, it is best to be truthful and straightforward in all financial dealings.
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